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On Hiatus, We Shall Meet Again Next Year 2021-The Erotic Literary Salon / Adult Sex-Ed

Friends of the Salon,

The newsletter gives more details, but basically we will be back in person as soon as a treatment/vaccine is available. (You can subscribe to newsletter, by linking to email in “Subscribe Newsletter” box on right side of home page.)

Keep writing or perhaps try your hand at it for the first time. Ideas – write from experience or fantasies.

I will be blogging irregularly, for now thinking of ideas to offer during COVID. Open to receiving suggestions, just not ZOOM. Send ideas to pcsalons@gmail.com

Don’t forget to visit one of our sponsors, open by appointment or on-line. https://passionalboutique.com


See you next year. Stay safe, stay healthy stay strong, wear mask!!!

Hiatus-Survey-$25 Raffle Prize plus Free Entrance-The Erotic Literary Salon

Under normal circumstances we would have gathered tonight, Sept. 15 at TIME (The Bohemian Absinthe Lounge) to hear wonderful erotica. The audience would have contributed to the Adult Sex-Ed section and everyone would have learned much. “Would have” is the operative term, along with “normal.” But as we all know nothing is normal these days and will “would have” become a “will meet?”

Moving forward the Salon is presently in hiatus status. I am reaching out to all who have attended in the past or are considering attending in the future. I would like you to take part in shaping the Salon’s future.

All survey’s returned by October 5 will be entered in a raffle to win one of two $25 gift certificates from Passional/Sexploritorium. Everyone filling out a survey will receive a free Salon entry pass. They will be handed out after you pay the entrance for attending your first Salon of the new year 2021.

A revised survey has been sent out today in the newsletter, (yesterday’s did not function properly.) If you did not receive a newsletter, check your junk/spam folder or perhaps you never subscribed. Send an email to pcsalons@gmail.com and in the subject line write: subscribe.

If you cannot find the newsletter and you have subscribed in the past, please try again. Sometimes in transcribing a handwritten email address from the Salon’s list, I get it wrong.

This month’s newsletter has important information about Shere Hite and Betty Dodson.

Please stay safe, stay healthy and stay strong!


Founder and Host, The Erotic Literary Salon



12th Erotic Literary Salon Anniversary May 19 on Zoom, Sweet Spot Nation Tonight April 30 & May 7

Thanks to all who participated in the virgin Salon last week, great to see familiar faces. Also wonderful to see people who would otherwise not attend because of distance or time issues. It was a great success, wonderful readings and enlightening sex-ed discussions.

Important, please link to a Zoom guide for participants. A definite must if you have never attended a Zoom meeting, and a great way to get acquainted with all the features. https://canvas.uw.edu/courses/721562/pages/zoom-guide-for-participants

You can disregard the following on the above link.  Zoom: Guide for Participants. Just click on link and use password supplied after you purchase ticket. Guide: you do not need headset/earbuds with microphone or webcam.

May 19th the Salon’s 12th anniversary, we will take it up a notch – you will have the opportunity to share on social media, with friends and family – take it worldwide. This site will convert time zones anywhere in the world. https://www.thetimezoneconverter.com

Please save the date May 19, the tickets will be up for sale soon. Check back in a few days.

May 7, I will be reading a chapter from Ainsley Burrow’s book, “Sex Addiction” at the virtual Sweet Spot Nation event. As you know I don’t use that term in my practice, but I shall suspend belief that evening and fantasize. Join me!chttps://www.instagram.com/sweetspotnation/?hl=en

Book, “Sex Addiction” – https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Addiction-Summer-Everyone-Hooked/dp/1793803013/ref=sr_1_5?crid=2IDJ2BSLU3LT9&dchild=1&keywords=ainsley+burrows&qid=1588277738&sprefix=Ainsley+bur%2Caps%2C137&sr=8-5

April 30-tonight In the meantime, you can attend tonight’s Sweet Spot Nation Event –  https://www.instagram.com/sweetspotnation/?hl=en event at 11pm, by donation.



Tonight-FREE – The Virgin Erotic Literary Salon On-Line – This Tuesday-April 21-6:45

CLICK on blog title to open site for Zoom meeting link. Once opened you will find the link under the invitation. I hope to see you at this first ever on-line Salon. Remember next month, May 19, the Salon celebrates 12 years strong.

You are invited to attend the virgin Erotic Literary Salon On-line. To be held this Tuesday, April 21st, 6:45 (not 6:30, explanation below.)
Invitation to the Erotic Literary Salon On-line


IMPORTANT: Please DO NOT share this link and password on social media. You can invite people you know, but please make it clear they are also not to share on social media.  


Zoom meeting over


A guide to participating in the Erotic Literary Salon on-line


You do not have to do anything but show up, however, the Salon is at its best when people become involved. I encourage you to follow all or a few of these directives, and become part of the first ever Erotic Literary Salon on-line.


Important: You must email your answers and sign-up to read prior to the event.


  • Answer one or both of the following questions. (Your answers can be extremely brief or lengthier, but not more than 1 ½ pages, single spaced. Your name will not be attached, and someone else will be reading it. Unless you would like to use these as a prompt and read your piece at the Salon, in which case, follow the guidelines below to sign-up to read.)


  • Describe the best s+x you had or wish you had had during this time of sheltering in place (solo or with partner/s.)


  • Fantasy – Describe in graphic detail a s+xual scene using robots, vampires or other extreme characters.


  • Send an email to pcsalons@gmail.com to sign-up to read during this Zoom event. You can read an original work (fiction or non-fiction, any style – spoken word, poetry, short story, excerpt from larger work, journal, rant, etc., or a piece by someone else. You can also present articles about interesting topics pertaining to s+xuality. Important: If you are a new presenter, please follow the guidelines to read. http://theeroticsalon.com/guidelines/


  • Adult S+x-Ed Question: Send an email to pcsalons@gmail.com with any questions about s+xuality (you can ask more than one question.) Your name will not be read at the Salon. It might be helpful when the audience answers your question, to know your approximate age and gender.


The following are examples of past questions asked at the Salon: My husband doesn’t get hard, how can I please him?, My wife says she hurts when we have s+x (intercourse), I don’t want to hurt her. What can I do to please her?, I want to open up our relationship, how do I ask my partner?. Nothing is off limits. The audience answers the questions and so do I, your host Susana Mayer. http://susanamayer.com/bio-2/


  • Send an email to pcsalons@gmail.com with a caption for this cartoon. You can offer more than one caption.





  • I encourage you to take part in the lively Adult S+x-Ed session. The attendees have the opportunity to answer the anonymous s+xuality questions.



Instructions for the Erotic Literary Salon on-line


I know it says 6:30 on the invitation, however, Jon (my cohost for the event) and I need to take a few minutes to settle in. Please sign in after 6:45 so we can work out the kinks (an intentional reference.)  We will officially start at 7, which gives you 15-minutes to meet and greet others in the Zoom chat room.


We ask that you be patient with us, since it is our first time offering a Zoom Salon.  If there are any problems on your end, please mention it in the chat room. You can private message or ask everyone for help.



  • You do not have to have a Zoom account to join this event, but you will be prompted to download the software.


  • Laptops and mobile devices such as iPhones and iPads have webcams and speakers built into them. Try to log in via computer rather than a mobile device for greater functionality and visibility.


  • You can attend the Salon incognito. After entering the event turn off the video icon at the bottom left. You can also change your name by clicking on the Participants icon at the bottom of the Zoom window. Next, hover your mouse over your name in the Participants list on the right side of the Zoom window. Click on “rename.” Enter the name you would like to appear in the Zoom meeting and click on “OK.”


  • You will not be able to unmute yourselves, only Jon and I will have that ability. The only time attendees will be able to speak, is when they are answering a question during the Adult S+x-Ed session or when presenting their readings.


  • Use the simulated hand raise, when participating during the Adult S+x-Ed session of the Salon. After you have been temporarily unmuted please lower simulated hand.



If you are entering after 7pm and attending a Zoom event for the first time:


  • You know you have entered the event when you see this toolbar at the bottom of the window. (It may look slightly different, depending on the device you are using.)


  • There will be a red slash mark through the microphone icon, it will be turned off. You will not be able to unmute yourself. Either Jon or I will unmute you if you have signed up to read or wish to answer a question in the Adult Sex-Ed session.


  • If the video has a slash mark, press on it to start. Click on the arrow to the right of the video icon to change your video settings and background. You can also leave the slash mark and keep your video turned off.


  • When you click on the Participants icon, you can see who is currently in the meeting. You can also hover over your name to change it as it is seen in the participants list and on the video window.


  • The Chat icon will allow you to chat with everyone. You are encouraged not to use it while others are speaking except if there is an emergency. Until the Salon officially starts at 7 and during a brief 10 minute intermission you will be able to chat with specific individuals. The chat room is not audible, it is a white space to the right of the video where you can type your remarks.
  • Similar to the Salon, there will be no recording.


  • Video layout is in the upper right of the Zoom window. You can switch between active speaker view and gallery view.


  • The enter or exit full screen mode is on the top right of the Zoom window. You can also exit the full screen by clicking on Esc.


  • You can leave the meeting at any time by clicking on the “Leave Meeting” option at the lower right corner of the Zoom window.