Philadelphia – LGBT Friendly City – Gender Neutral Restrooms

I’m proud to live in a city that has set its sites on becoming, “the most, LGBT-friendly city in the world and a leader on equality issues,…”

Excerpt from article in NBC10 Philadelphia on-line

Gender-Neutral Restrooms Become the Law

Philadelphia passes sweeping LGBT-friendly legislation that includes gender-neutral toilets

When Mayor Michael Nutter signed legislation Thursday to afford equal rights to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, he said he hoped Philadelphia would become “the most LGBT-friendly” city in the world.

One piece of that comprehnsive legislation will forever alter the restroom options in city-owned buildings.

The legislation requires that new or renovated city-owned buildings include gender-neutral bathrooms in addition to traditional men’s and women’s restrooms.

“It can be an awkward and embarrassing situation” for anyone who may “feel more like a woman, but can’t use the women’s room,” said Councilman Jim Kenney, the bill’s sponsor.

There is more to the bill than just a neutral place to relieve oneself. Nutter, city and state lawmakers and gay rights advocates said the legislation makes Philadelphia the first city in the U.S. to offer tax credits to companies that extend the same health care coverage to LGBT employees’ domestic partners and their children as they provide to heterosexual spouses and their children.

Officials said the legislation also makes Philadelphia the first city to offer businesses tax credits as a way to encourage providing transgender-specific health benefits.

“My goal is for Philadelphia to be one of, if not the most, LGBT-friendly cities in the world and a leader on equality issues,” said Nutter, adding that the signing struck a personal note because his friend, the late City Councilman John Anderson, was a gay man and a mentor who inspired him 30 years ago to pursue a life of public service.

In addition to the business tax incentives, Read More:

http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/local/LGBT-Gender-Neutral-Restrooms-206932591.html

 

Booty Candy – Wilma Theater – Must See

Sex Ed as you have never seen it presented before. Playlets that will astound, ranging from belly laughs to tears. The script is wonderful and the acting sublime. What more could you want from a play? At the Wilma in Philadelphia, we know what that means – always on the cutting edge, and this is know exception.

Excerpt from Wilma Dramaturg Walter Bilderback’s interview with Playwright/Director Robert O’Hara.

Wilma Dramaturg Walter Bilderback sits with Playwright/Director Robert O’Hara. This is the first part of his interview.

WALTER BILDERBACK: Let’s start with the basic: What’s Bootycandy?

ROBERT O’HARA: Bootycandy is the name that my grandmother and mother used for the penis when I was a little boy. After seeing the world premiere of this play in DC, my mother turned to me and actually said “It was BooBoo Candy ­ why on EARTH would we call your penis Bootycandy?” and my response to her was “Oh Boo Boo Candy makes oh so much more sense, right???” Regardless I heard Bootycandy… all my life. So I think my Mother is making up some Boo Boo Candy … that just sounds crazy. Now, Bootycandy… I can kinda understand. LOL…

WB: The play has been described as semi-autobiographical. I’m guessing the stress is on the “semi.”

RO: When I watch the play I can see where most of the scenes come from… they are all from real life experience and most of the more surreal things are absolutely true…

WB: Bootycandy is not a conventional play in structure: although the character Sutter shows up in several scenes, there’s no “one story” for the audience to follow. You’ve said the play was somewhat inspired by George C. Wolfe’s The Colored Museum. Wolfe was an early mentor of yours. How isBootycandy related to The Colored Museum?

RO: The Colored Museum explored a conversation surrounding race, gender, history and sexuality among many other things. And just like when you walk through certain exhibits, the narrative comes from your experience rather than someone telling you “this is the beginning middle and end…” Bootycandy is also a conversation surrounding  race, gender, personal history and sexuality. And yes, George was an early mentor to me and it was an overwhelming experience… He is a fierce, complicated Genius. PERIOD.

I chose to drag Sutter through the piece by way of his experiences with sex, authority and race. I don’t know if there is a unifying metaphor: the one I’m using for the Wilma production is Vaudeville, but I think good plays allow many different metaphors to be found inside. Each production should find their own. I will say that on the front door of the Bootycandy exhibit is the sign, “Everyone is Welcome, No One is Safe”.

WB: What’s important to you about Vaudeville as a metaphor?

RO: I think it’s really the “idea” of Vaudeville, rather than Vaudeville in reality… I like the idea of it being sort of popular entertainment as opposed to the “High Art” that theater sometimes becomes. In Vaudeville there are Acts or Sketches, there the a “Straight” man, the Clowns/Fools, Animal Acts . . . it’s all over the place. Vaudeville’s motto was “if you don’t like those apples I got others.” It reminds me of the Sundays after church with my granny and  gramps sitting watching these different shows that made us laugh. . . like the Carol Burnett Show,which I watched religiously with my grandparents, as well as Hee Haw and Lawrence Welk. I am interested in the average person’s idea of Vaudeville and what links to our contemporary entertainment it has. . . so this is contemporary Vaudeville. . .

WB: You have an active career as both a writer and a director. How did you build your career? What are the advantages and disadvantages of each?

Read More:

https://wilmatheater.org/blog/interview-robert-ohara-part-one-everyone-welcome-no-one-safe

Ear Porn – Sex with Timaree Interview Dr. Susana Mayer Founder/Host The Erotic Literary Salon

Please listen to the interview/discussion I had with Timaree, she is a most delightful sexologist who has a wonderful website. This is what she wrote about the interview -

EAR PORN: DR. SUSANA MAYER AND THE EROTIC LITERARY SALON

erotic literary salon

In most cities, there are open mics where people can workshop their latest creations in front of a live audience, whether they be singer-songwriters or stand up comics.

But what if your art is penning sultry tales of people getting it on? Or what if you just want to chill in the unpretentious swank of an absinthe bar while  hearing lusty stories read by interesting strangers?

You’ll be delighted to learn that you’ve got options. For five years Dr. Susana Mayer has hosted the Erotic Literary Salon, an event she founded not knowing if anyone would have the chutzpah to stand up and let an audience into their private fantasies.

Read more at URL below and for link to interview:

http://sexwithtimaree.com/2013/05/15/ear-porn-dr-susana-mayer-and-the-erotic-literary-salon/#comment-3272

Free Video – Sexy / Sensual Movie Trailer – Fifty Shades of Grey

Another teaser trailer by the same producer of yesterday’s posted video, only this time even more sexy.